How to Prepare Your Home for Photos When You’re Still Living In It (Without Losing Your Mind)

This home was transformed from ‘lived-in’, to ‘market-ready’. Furniture was swapped around and key pieces and decor were added for the final look.

If you’ve ever tried to prepare your lived-in home for real estate photos, you’ll understand this feeling:
You tidy the kitchen… someone makes a sandwich.
You clean the bathroom… someone showers.
You fluff the cushions… the dog sits on them.

It feels like the home is actively fighting against you.

If you’re nodding, I want you to know something:
You are not alone, and you are not doing anything wrong.
Lived-in homes are real homes. They’re full of life, schedules, pets, school bags, washing, mail, food and people. Preparing for photos isn’t easy — but it IS doable.

After working with more than 900 families across the Moreton Bay Region, I’ve created a simple, calm, real-world process to prepare your home for photos without feeling like you need to stop living in it.

Let’s walk through that process together.

1. Start with the spaces buyers see FIRST

There’s a science to this.
Buyers — and photographers — form their emotional impression of your home within seconds.

The areas that impact photos the most are:

  • entrance

  • living room

  • kitchen

  • main bedroom

  • outdoor area

These also tend to be the “clutter hotspots” in lived-in homes.

Here’s the good news: these spaces don’t need to be perfect — they just need to feel:
✔ clean
✔ spacious
✔ intentional

I call this the “calm corners principle.”
If even part of the photo communicates calm and care, your whole home feels elevated.

2. Pack away 20%, not everything

Please don’t fall into the “everything must disappear” trap.
You’re still living in your home. You still need:

  • your kettle

  • your toiletries

  • your kids’ morning routine items

  • your pet bowls

  • your shoes

We’re aiming for functional tidy, not fantasy.

Here’s what to remove temporarily:

  • visual clutter (piles, stacks, paperwork)

  • excess small décor

  • fridge magnets

  • bulky appliances

  • washing baskets

  • items stored on top of wardrobes

Here’s what can stay:

  • lamps

  • 1–2 decorative pieces per surface

  • plants

  • throws and cushions

  • everyday essentials tucked neatly

Think: a lived-in home that feels curated, not chaotic.

3. Edit furniture for flow

You don’t need new furniture — you just need the right arrangement.

Lived-in homes often feel smaller in photos because of:

  • big sofas

  • extra chairs

  • pet beds

  • side tables

  • toy baskets

  • “nice to have” pieces you don’t even notice anymore

For photo day, consider removing 1–2 pieces per room.
This instantly:
✔ widens the photo
✔ improves light flow
✔ reduces visual noise
✔ makes your home feel bigger

I do this in nearly every consultation, and the transformation is immediate.

4. Light is EVERYTHING

Photographers can work magic, but natural light will always win.
Before photo day:

  • open every blind

  • raise every curtain

  • clean window tracks

  • check every light bulb (matching colour temperature!)

  • remove heavy décor blocking windows

You want light to travel through the room cleanly.
Great light = great photos = more clicks online = more buyers through your door.

5. Master the “20-minute tidy”

This is my signature system and clients LOVE it.

Here’s what to do the hour before photos:

Kitchen

  • clear benches

  • wipe surfaces

  • put tea towels away

  • hide rubbish bins

Bathroom

  • clear toiletries

  • hang fresh towels

  • tuck away brushes, razors, bottles

  • remove bathmats

Bedrooms

  • smooth the linen

  • plump pillows

  • hide clothes

  • clear bedside tables

Living areas

  • fluff cushions properly (vertical karate chop optional 😉)

  • fold throws

  • tidy cords

  • hide remotes

Outdoors

  • sweep paths

  • hide hoses

  • tuck away pool toys

This isn’t about perfection. It’s about eliminating distractions, so the photo captures the feel of the space.

6. Your home doesn’t need to look like a display home — just well-loved and well-prepared

This is where people breathe a sigh of relief.

Your lived-in home is allowed to look like:

  • children live there

  • pets live there

  • YOU live there

We’re not trying to trick anyone. We’re simply helping buyers see the potential and space, not the noise of everyday life.

Presentation is about respect — for yourself, your home, and the buyer’s eye.

7. If in doubt, ask for help (even one room at a time)

Sometimes what stops sellers isn’t the work — it’s the overwhelm.
You don’t need to overhaul your whole house to get great photos.
You just need clarity, strategy and a fresh perspective.

I can help you create a room-by-room plan using what you already own.

You’d be surprised how quickly small, intentional edits can elevate your online presence — and that matters, because buyers are deciding whether to attend your open home based on those photos.

Final thoughts

Preparing a lived-in home for real estate photos doesn’t need to be stressful, expensive or unrealistic.

With a bit of planning and a clear process, you can create photos that feel calm, bright and welcoming — all while still living your normal life.

If you’d like help with one room or your whole home, just reach out.
I’m here to make the process easier.

 

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